The Dog Eats The Leftovers

The Dog Eats The Leftovers

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This Blog is meant to be a light-hearted look at how a parent as to navigate his or her way through life whilst bringing up two teenagers on a very limited income. We want to share what we have learnt and hopefully help anyone else out there struggling to make things work in a seemingly chaotic world. I don't always get it right and I am certainly not perfect.....

What to do when your kids don't need you.

FamiliesPosted by Rebecca Guillain Sat, September 12, 2015 14:42:58
I've worked in schools for most of my life, primarily as a freelance drama and dance teacher. I used to enjoy the school holidays even though money was always tight. Unfortunately I never got paid during holidays, but you can't have it all can you?
Spending time with the kids when they were young was a privilege. I was never one of those parents that said "I'm glad they've gone back to school" or "They're doing my head in!!" (popular Leicester expression).

To be truthful, I always felt very depressed when they went back after the holiday. The house felt empty and the thought of six weeks depressing school run in the slowly darkening mornings and evenings put a dampener of everything. Not to mention the Autumn term being the longest and toughest for most teachers and and the oncoming Christmas the most expensive.

This Summer break was different. I'd just lost a job, had no money and no chance of a holiday (not had one for 10 years! nothing new there). But, apart from that.....my kids don't need me anymore. They need me to provide food, hugs, counselling and laundry service. They also need me as target practice when something or someone gets them angry and they need to project it onto a crash test mummy/dummy.

To be honest, it was a very lonely 7 weeks and I'm feeling like I'm wasting my potential.


So....time for a new outlook. Time to think ahead.
Maybe a career change. its never too late.

Noel can get a job though. He's eating too much.

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